A mountain out of nothing

Yesterday Mike was briging back my engagement ring to the jeweler, the color was golden because they forgot to put some kind of glaze on it so it looks white. I also asked that they make it a little bigger... I guess that Mike did not present it that way because the lady said that they could not do it... When Mike called me to tell me about it, it was 9:00PM and the store was closed so I could not call them to discuss the issue... I made a fuss about why he did not call me right when it happened, I would have been able to clarify my request. The whole thing got out of hands when I started telling Mike that in the future he should call me right away so we can solve things and move on... He got all quiet and that is when I start feeling insecure. I really don't like talking on the phone but when he works that's the only way... Anyway, the call ended . I had to call him back and asked about how he felt, he said persecuted. We talked a little more. He said that the ring was only a bunch of problem and I explain that it was not. I needed to be reassured that he did not think that I was going crazy and control freak, that he did not change his opinion about me. With the wedding preparative, I am worried that similar situations happen and that we will get in the same situation. I told him that I love him and he said the same. He said that he was trying not to react with his old pattern... I should work on that too. I am still feeling a little funny, misunderstood and worried about what he is thinking. This morning it felt better but I will have a better feeling tomorrow since I will see him for more than 10 minutes. Last night I bought my first Bridal magazine... Lost of good references, I will have to go through it again and again and look at the website they recommended... I need to call the jeweler now.